Overcoming Impostor Syndrome: A Lightworker's Journey to Self-Acceptance

There was a time—not so long ago—when I felt tired, miserable, and desperate. I was trying to figure out how to make enough money to stay home with my kids.

I had spiritual gifts and I knew I could help people. Deep down, I believed I could create a life better than the one I was living. But, that voice in my head kept whispering:

“You’re not ready. You’re not good enough. Who do you think you are to be doing this?”

That voice? That’s impostor syndrome. It held me down tightly. I didn’t have the luxury of waiting until I felt “ready.” I had to try something. Going LIVE was my only option.

So, I did it. I was totally terrified. Yet, I hit that “go live” button anyway.

As I built my business, I learned effective ways to combat impostor syndrome. It wasn’t easy, but it was necessary.

Embracing the Journey of Self-Discovery

Like many, I faced my share of doubts and fears on this journey. Overcoming impostor syndrome involves embracing who you are and recognizing your value.

What is Impostor Syndrome?

Impostor syndrome is a psychological pattern where an individual doubts their accomplishments and has a persistent fear of being exposed as a fraud. It’s common, but it can be debilitating. Many of us experience these feelings, which can prevent us from reaching our full potential.

By understanding what impostor syndrome is, you can start to dismantle it.

Strategies That Helped Me Conquer Impostor Syndrome

1. I Named the Inner Critic—and Talked Back

That inner voice that tells you you’re not good enough? I used to hear it massively whenever I thought about showcasing my work online. So, I gave her a name. (It wasn't a flattering one, I’ll admit.) Naming her helped me separate that voice from my truth.

That critic was old programming—fear, past trauma, and self-doubt—not me. Now, when she pops up, I tell her: “Thanks for your concern. I’m still doing this.”

2. I Created a “Proof of Badassery” Folder

Every kind message I received, every booking, every expression of gratitude went into a special folder on my phone. Whenever impostor syndrome crept in, I needed hard evidence that I was actually helping people.

Use it as a reminder: you’re not making this up. You’re not a fraud. You’re creating an impact.

3. I Realized Fear Was a Sign I Was Growing

In the early days, before going LIVE, anxiety would overwhelm me. The familiar questions echoed in my mind:

“What if I mess up?” “What if no one shows up?” “What if people think I’m fake?”

But I started to change my perspective. These fears weren’t signs that I shouldn’t do it; they were signs that I was growing. The fear was stretching me into the version of myself who could lead, guide, and shine.

4. I Shared Before I Felt Ready

If I had waited until I felt confident, polished, and “professional,” I’d still be hiding. Instead, I chose to share my journey in real time. I offered readings before I felt like an expert, and I went LIVE without a perfect setup or script.

What I discovered was profound: people didn’t need perfect. They needed real.

5. I Wrote My Own Worthiness Code

Impostor syndrome made me feel like I needed to earn the right to be seen. It felt like I needed someone else's approval before I could show up authentically. So, I took back my power and wrote a new truth.

I call it my Worthiness Code. This code includes affirmations like:

• I am worthy because I exist.

• My voice matters, even if it shakes.

• Spirit works through me—not because I’m perfect, but because I’m willing.

  
  

If you’re struggling with impostor syndrome, consider writing your own code. Tape it to your mirror. Let it be your anchor to truth.

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I won’t lie to you: impostor syndrome doesn’t vanish overnight. However, every time I hit “go live,” every time I showed up scared but brave, I chipped away at the fear and made room for me.

With time, I became the woman I previously doubted I could be.

Your Light Is Needed

If you are a Lightworker who knows you're destined to help others—but fear is holding you back—I created something just for you.

🌟 My Going LIVE for Lightworkers course is a heart-centered guide to help you show up, speak up, and get paid for being exactly who you are. We discuss energy, fear, money, and self-worth. We practice going LIVE together. And we work to heal the stories that keep us stuck in hiding.

Because here’s the truth: you’re not an impostor.

The world is waiting for your light.

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